eHarmony
The deepest compatibility matching still running, and the closest thing to a replacement for EliteSingles.
- Price
- $19–37 / mo
- Shortest plan
- 6-month term (cheapest per-month rate is the 24-month plan)
- Matching
- Algorithmic. 80-question compatibility quiz, curated daily matches
- Best for
- Serious daters 30+ who want a life partner and will pay for depth over volume
What works
- The compatibility questionnaire filters out casual daters. You cannot drift in casually.
- Best-documented marriage track record of the major sites; independent academic work has found eHarmony marriages scoring well on stability and satisfaction.
- Reported message response rates far above swipe apps, because everyone present has already paid and invested time.
- Consistently the lowest fake-profile rate of the four platforms here.
What doesn't
- The most expensive platform in this comparison, and there is no month-to-month option. The minimum commitment is six months, paid up front or in instalments.
- Auto-renewal and billing complaints dominate its negative reviews; renewal often prices higher than the discounted first term.
- Setup is slow. Roughly 45 minutes for the questionnaire plus profile before you see a single match.
- You cannot browse freely. You see who the algorithm sends you, which is the whole point and also the main frustration.
Our verdict
If your goal is a long-term relationship and you are willing to treat dating as a paid, structured process, eHarmony is the strongest option still operating. Buy it knowing two things: you are locked in for at least six months, and you must diarise the renewal date.